okay so i need help for my boyfriend. actually more along the lines of he needs advice. hes 17 going on 18?

years old and his mom is a teacher so of course she keeps him in ALOT! hes been homeschooled his whole life and shes really strict. and for the most part. crazy. we live in the lower region of michigan which is pretty much all city and my boyfriends mom made him go to the upper peninsula to work and everything. she said that jobs up there pay more and stuff. and next year my boyfriends family is moving up there. now my boyfriend hates it up there. theres nothing for him hes a city kid. hes moving out by the end of summer. up there he has some crappy jobs at a resturaunt and a put put golf place. hes up there to get a car or whatever then move out. but him and his mom are gettin into major fights and she wants us to break up. hes is in the middle of staying up there to get a car working at crappy places or takin a greyhound bus down here and gettin a job gettin better money. hell be living with me until we move out with his sister. what would you do?

Complicated situation… First off, while relationships are important, the most important question for him is: Is he moving out to get away from his mother, or is he doing it because he really loves you? If it’s a little of both, then ask this, would he be moving in with you if he was living on his own already with a decent job?

You want a relationship based on mutual love & respect, not because someone is running away from something. I think that he should move into the same town as you, but not into the same house or apt. Be friends, be more than friends if you want. But he need to find out who he is when he is not around other people. Then when he is secure as an individual, only then can he decide (unbiased) whether or not he would like to move in with his girlfriend.

Oh and the mom is convinced that you are the only reason that he wants to leave and will make him miserable (dominating mom). I suggest that if you still have a relationship after a few months, that you both talk to her (after all the fur has settled down) because she can be a valuable ally (and no parent wants to lose touch with their children).

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